You never thought this would be your relationship, but here you are: fighting over the small stuff because the big stuff feels too vulnerable to bring up. What you want is someone who’s been in your shoes before and understands the intricacies of attachment, communication, and what it feels like to not be heard or be the one who’s begging for connection. I’m not going to mince my words, but I am going to hold both of you with the utmost respect and empathy. The work we’re doing here is about being real, being authentic, and learning new ways to actually hear one another. It’s normal to feel a blend of emotions as you start this process. You might feel some hesitation at the newness of this (don’t worry, we’ve all started here), and simultaneously you might notice a flicker of excitement for what we can accomplish together. There’s nothing more rewarding than finding a path toward deeper connection in your relationship so you can feel held, seen, and supported.